Thursday, April 10, 2008

Urgent Question... This Happened Last Night

WHY would a woman who has a boyfriend invite her heterosexual 'male friend' to hang out for a late night study session, at her apartment -- when her boyfriend is not around?

17 comments:

Anonymous said...

Because she is unhappy in her present relationship and wants to open the door for new opportunities.

Anonymous said...

Could not have said it better myself. She is fishing.

ErynMyisha said...

pretty much. but if she's unhappy due to no fault of her own, she should get out of the relationship b/c that situation could make her look very bad.

KD said...

Why wouldn't she is my question. You didn't mention if there was a final the following day or some time in the near future...did they have a group project to work on...was there a term paper due (the semester/quarter is coming to a close)...there are just too many unanswered details to make a "snap judgement". Whether or not either is "up to something" remains to be seen. However, just based on the information provided doesn't suggest any "wrong doing" on either part (with the exception of the way it was presented...like there was something lascivious taking place.) If you choose to "commit" your life to someone at any given time, trust is a part of the package. If there are issues with trust, then YOU need to check yourself. If someone doesn't give you cause to doubt...then DON'T...and if they do...get rid of them. Again, I see nothing wrong with classmates studying together.

Anonymous said...

How long have they been friends? Is that uncommon for them to do? Sometimes we are quick to judgement and want the worst to happen so we can go "see, i told you they were more than friends!" I am a male with alot of female friends that i have slept with without sleeping with them. It is possible. Like KD said, there are too many details not there to make judgement one way or the other and if they grown, stay out they business!

Anonymous said...

Seems as though it was something she wanted to talk about Sheri! You know what that means, something seems fishy.

dat dude said...

As a guy, if I were that 'hetero-male friend', I will be anticipating that she would be offering up some 'a--' or a least some 'head' -- sooner or later.

Either way, her 'hetero-male friend' is putting in good work -- whether she 'realizes' it or not. It will pay off for him, especially as the Spring weather gets warmer and hormones start to wake up!

Intelligent guys know that FAMILIARITY -- without being too accessible -- and patience, will eventually get those panties to drop! :-)

Anonymous said...

She still needs to be respectable to her guy. Late night study sessions when he is not around...not respectable. Question is was he aware and did he care. If he didn't care that means he has one foot out of the door any way. No man will let another man be with his woman alone late at night. Especially if he is not around. Only man that has that privilege is JESUS.

Torrance Stephens bka All-Mi-T said...

she is disrespectful and not woman enugh to tell the man. Thats foul

Wonderful Unknown! said...

She trying to have sex with that brother!

Anonymous said...

I agree with "KD" and surprisingly, "dat dude" as well.

1.To many unanswered questions. Not good to prejudge. Momma said, don't ASSUME in that it can make an "ASS of U and Me". :-)

3. Per this dialoge, maybe not the wisest choice on her part. Why give reason to question reputation?...

2. Unfortunately, regardless of her motives, "heterosex-male", is likely hoping to action. Some call 'em "back-door boys"...
-mlb

Honey Devereaux said...

Additional Details

1. Girl's boyfriend is unaware.

2. They were not 'studying' together(male friend is NOT even in school.

3. Male friend and girl have 'made out' before.

4. Male friend and girl have been friends for a year.

5. This is their first time doing this.

6. Girl tells male friend she just wants to be friends, and doesn't want to disrespect her boyfriend.

7. Girl invited male friend over.

Anonymous said...

Oh... Well she is CREEPIN!!!! Case closed.

Devon :) said...

with that new information i will have to conclude that the female is... how do you say... hoein' around??

Jarrod Halsey said...

"Intelligent guys know that FAMILIARITY -- without being too accessible -- and patience, will eventually get those panties to drop! :-)"

You're a f'n GENIUS, dude.

Anonymous said...

Oh come on....she probably just enjoys his company and besides it seems like if she really wanted him she probably could. I invite friends all the time does not mean that I am unhappy or fishing. Just means that you have friends and some closer than others.

Eb the Celeb said...

because she needed to study and was only available late night